Marriages...

Yesterday, as I was thinking about intercession, I began thinking of how I break down the big things I pray for.  Each day has its own particular requests I ask God's help for (certain people who may be in the hospital or have another immediate need).  But, since there were so many big things, I thought it would be helpful to follow Beth's advice and break those down into manageable bits, so I thought of a word that began with the same letter as the day I'd pray for it on--it sounds confusing as I'm typing, so let me just show you:

Sunday--I pray for the SALVATION of those I know need Jesus, and those I don't even know of yet.

Monday--I pray for the MARRIAGES of friends, family and around the world.

Tuesday--I pray for TEACHERS--of public schools, private schools, home schools, colleges & universities, Sunday schools--it's vast and I don't always mention all of them specifically.

Wednesday--I pray for WORLD LEADERS.  Anyone from a police officer/firefighter to the president of our country and others.

Thursday--I pray for THIS SUNDAY'S services--the message and the many preachers who will be delivering it, the worship leaders, Sunday school teachers, volunteers.

Friday--I pray for FREEDOM for the many that are enslaved in sex-trafficking, child soldiering, and those held captive for reasons I am not aware of.

Saturday--I pray for SOCIAL INJUSTICES--poverty, hunger, slavery, AIDS (specifically in Africa)--that God would rise up people like me and you to make a difference in this world for Christ.  Also I pray for humanitarian organizations like World Vision and Compassion to have success in their work.

These are examples, and I don't necessarily pray for each of these things on every day that I set aside for them, but it gives me a great way to remember the big issues and to not get absorbed by my own little world.  Feel free to divide your BIG stuff into categories, too.

But back to the beginning, because yesterday was Monday, I was thinking about marriages and praying for yours--and those of you who are not married, I prayed for your growth in Christ and your future husband.  The enemy desperately wants to destroy our marriages--to lie to us and convince us it's his/her fault.  When times are tough, we have to own up to our own shortcomings, apologize and ask for forgiveness.  We have to offer forgiveness and let God do the rest.  God gave us marriage so we could see His great love for creation in our love relationship.  Praise You, God!  There will be tough times, but He will see us through.

My last thought, we have been following Jon & Kate Plus 8 a little lately and have been discouraged by one main thing.  They are both doing all they do for their children.  It sounds okay, but it falls so short.  We have to love our husbands more than our children.  We have to love our Jesus more than our husbands.  If you are not at this point, I pray you will soon come to this level of love.  If we live our lives for anything less than Christ, it's foolishness.  Craig, my husband, and I are so passionate about marriages.  Just know this--when you are following God and seeking to know Him more, the enemy will attack, and most often he attacks the family.  May you receive encouragement knowing you are not alone--timing may be different, but the enemy wants to take us all down.  And for those of you who are enjoying a wonderful time in your marriage/singleness right now, may you praise God and strengthen your relationship with your God and your husband and look out for the enemy's traps.  Oh, how I love each of you (especially my Bible study gals) and I can't wait to see you again soon!

Father, please strengthen our marriages--when communication breaks down, help us to have patience to figure the thing out.  When disappointment creeps in, allow us to find hope in You.  When deep hurt cuts our hearts, may You heal us teach us to love without conditions.  Teach us to love like You do--to make the choice to be faithful and respectful even if we don't feel it.  Because You ARE faithful, even when we're not (2 Tim. 2:13).  Praise You, Jesus, for not leaving us alone.  I love you!

love,

me

Day 5: Supplication for Self

To supplicate is to make a humble request, so today we move along in our prayer to our requests for ourselves.  God does not answer every request we bring to Him in the way that we desire.  Some reasons include:  our disobedience, pride, lack of faith, or double-mindedness.  On the other hand, God promises to answer (though the answer may be different than what we had in mind) when we feed the hungry and stand up for the oppressed, when we believe that we will receive what we ask, when we forgive others, when we obey God’s commands, and when we pray in the Spirit.  God knows best and will answer in what is best for us—not just what sounds good to us. (paraphrased from Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary, 1023)

“Now enter into a time of prayer for yourself.  I wholeheartedly disagree with both those who say we shouldn’t pray for ourselves and those who make us feel selfish when we do.  God has called each of us to love Him, serve Him, and live holy lives.  I need help to live that life!  We can only know Him intimately when we bring Him our innermost thoughts, fears, hurts, gains, losses and desires.  This is a time when I just talk to Him.  I ask Him to give me a heart to love Him more and to fill any empty or handicapped places in my heart with the safety of His love.  I discuss with Him my tendencies and any weaknesses I’m experiencing.  I share my needs and desires.  I use this as a very personal time between the two of us.  I hope you’ll do the same.  Pour out your heart to Him for God is our refuge (Ps. 6:8).”  Beth Moore from Whispers of Hope page 7

Isaiah 58:6-11

Mark 11:22-26

John 15:7

1 John 3:21-23; 5:13-15

Honesty—we want it from other people and God desires the same from us.  Find that paper or journal, praise Him, confess, acknowledge Him, intercede for others and be honest with Him about your heart and mind—don’t be afraid to ask God to fill you with more of Him and more of His love, strength, focus, _______.  He is so faithful!

Day 4: Intercession

Intercession and petition as defined by Webster:

Intercession—an interposing (intervening, influencing) or pleading on behalf of another person.

Petition—a formally drawn request…addressed to a person…in authority, soliciting some favor, right or other benefit; a respectful or humble request, as to a superior; a supplication or prayer.

“The sinful nature of this world separates human beings from God.  It has always been necessary, therefore, for righteous individuals to go before God to seek reconciliation between Him and His fallen creation—examples: Abraham speaking to God on behalf of Sodom, Moses petitioning God on behalf of the Hebrew people, Christ’s prayers on behalf of Peter, His disciples and those who crucified Him.  Christ continues to intercede for His church.” Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary (602-3)

Beth Moore’s words on intercession:  “Pray for others!  I’m overwhelmed by how many people need prayer.  The list never ends!  If you have a long prayer list, you might divide the list into days of the week.  We probably pray more effectively over five or ten needs per day than fifty!  Ask God to burden your heart with the specific people He wants you to intercede for each day.  Intercessory prayer really works!  Here’s a tip:  we save time when we don’t tell God how to answer the prayer!  God doesn’t need our list of solutions.  When Mary, Christ’s mother, went to Christ with a petition in John 2:3, she simply stated the need.  She knew He was God.  Who could be more qualified to analyze the problem and apply the solution?” Whispers of Hope page 7

Romans 8:34

Hebrews 7:25

Who intercedes for us?  Makes requests to God on our behalf?

1Timothy 2:1-4

1 Peter 2:9

So…Christ petitions the Father, seeking reconciliation between creation and Creator.  He does this for us—He is our High Priest.  But it doesn’t end there, 1 Peter tells us that as Christ-followers we are chosen and we are a kingdom of priests—we have the high privilege of intervening on behalf of our family, friends, leaders, and even those we do not yet know—asking God a favor or request for them.  Now to your paper—praise God, repent, acknowledge His power and authority, and intercede for people you know who need help or direction…3-2-1-go!

Day 3: Acknowledgement

Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary defines knowledge as ”the truth or facts of life that a person acquires either through experience or thought.  The greatest truth that a person can possess with the mind or learn through experience is truth about God.  This cannot be gained by unaided human reason.  It is acquired only as God shows himself to people—in nature and conscience; in history or providence; and especially in the Bible.” (737)  Webster’s Dictionary defines acknowledgement as “recognition of the existence, truth, authority, or validity of something.”  Therefore, in our acknowledgement of God we are recognizing the existence, truth, authority and validity of God’s ability to take the reigns in our lives.

Hear what Beth Moore has to say on acknowledging God:  “Having praised Him and been purified by Him, you are ready to submit to God’s authority.  Acknowledge His right to rule and reign in your life everyday.  Then willingly and DELIBERATELY submit yourself to His lordship—ONE DAY AT A TIME.  Any day not surrendered to the authority of the Holy Spirit will automatically be lived in the flesh (see Gal. 5).  Acknowledging God’s specific authority over your personal life is not the same things as praise.  We can praise God all day long with our lips yet never deliberately surrender to His lordship with our hearts.  Often in this part of my prayer time, I acknowledge how trustworthy He’s been with His authority in my life.  I recall how He has never misled me and that He calls upon me to submit to Him for MY SAKE…not for His.  However you may word it, I urge you to make a specific point of acknowledging Him as Lord; voice your choice to bend your knee to Him.  You might also ask Him for an immediate awareness when you are departing His authority.  Acknowledge God’s goodness to you in the past and thank Him for His faithfulness during times you’ve allowed Him to be the uncontested Lord of your life.  This is a very important step.  Please don’t skip it!” Whispers of Hope page 6

Let’s read these verses of scripture:

Psalm 91:14-16

Proverbs 3:5-6

Hosea 6:3

Matthew 10:32

1 John 4:15

Do you believe God is big enough to take care of the world, but also to take care of you?  Grab that paper and begin your prayer today—first with praise, then repentance, then acknowledge God’s authority in your life.  If you like, please share a way God has proven Himself trustworthy in your life!

Day 2: Repentance

As defined in Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary, repentance is “a turning away from sin, disobedience, or rebellion and a turning back to God…In Jesus’ preaching of the kingdom of God (we) see the truth that repentance and faith are two sides of the same coin:  by repentance, one turns away from sin; by faith, one turns toward God in accepting the Lord Jesus Christ…This type of repentance leads to a fundamental change in a person’s relationship to God.” (1077-8) “Awareness of God’s holiness leads to consciousness of our own sinfulness…By sinning we hurt ourselves and those closest to us; but first of all, and worst of all, sin is against God (Ps. 51:4).”  When we repent, or confess our sins to God, He is faithful to His promise to forgive us and restore our relationship with Him—we get rid of interference in the connection.

Beth Moore’s words on repentance:  “After you’ve spent several minutes in praise and worship, enter a time of confession and repentance.  I teach this sequence because in Matthew 6:9, 12 Christ taught the disciples to “hallow” God’s name first, then ask for forgiveness for sin.  However, I’ve experienced times when my heart was too full of sin and conviction to begin with praise.  You probably have, too.  Sometimes, based on Isaiah 59: 1,2, you may need to begin your prayer time with repentance rather than praise.  The Isaiah passage indicates that, when we have rebelled against God, all He wants to hear is repentance.  David’s prayer in Psalm 51 is an example.  His life had been so full of sin, his prayer of repentance simply started with the words, “Have mercy upon me!”  As you become increasingly sensitive to the Holy Spirit, you will discern times when your prayer life needs to begin with repentance rather than praise.  Your heart will feel burdened with sin and anxious for relief.  NO MATTER WHAT, practice a time of confession and repentance DAILY!!  We gain victory over sin by allowing God to treat our problems in their earliest stages.  Resist letting anything build up.  Confess sins of the thought life such as wrong motives, negativism, a critical spirit, or even right words with a wrong heart.  Let God catch things in early stages so we can be Spirit-filled people on a DAILY basis.  Remember, the only thing whiter than snow is a freshly cleansed child of God! (Ps. 51:7)” Whispers of Hope page 6

Look up and read these passages:

Jeremiah 15:19  (Note: “serve” is literally “stand before”—an appropriate posture for an obedient servant—footnote in Archaeological Study Bible, 1218)

2 Corinthians 7:8-11, especially verse 10

Revelation 2:5

True repentance clears the air and removes obstructions that may be between me and God.  Is there anything you began doing when you first came to know God’s saving love for us that you have since given up?  Perhaps you were more grateful, more forgiving of others, more bold to share this newfound love with anyone you met.  May we keep the space between us and God clear by reflecting daily on where we want to be and honestly asking God for forgiveness where we fall short.  Grab that notebook or paper again, and take some time to praise God, then enter into your time of confession and repentance.  God accepts us where we are, but longs to teach us and take us to a destination beyond our wildest dreams!

Day 1: Praise

Dearest visitors,

We will be using this blog for Bible study purposes for much of the summer--please feel free to come along if you so desire--we'd love to have you join us!

Through His marvelous love,

Audrey

Over the next week our study will be on the P.R.A.I.S.E. format for journaling our prayers.  Praise.  Repentance.  Acknowledgement.  Intercession.  Supplication for self.   Equipping.  In her prayer devotional, Whispers of Hope, Beth Moore says, ”I’m certain of two things:  prayerless lives are powerless lives, and prayerful lives are powerful lives.  May God “teach us how to pray” (Luke 11:1) and may we be willing to learn!” 

So before we take off on the “P” of our acrostic, let’s be sure we have a firm grasp on what prayer is.  Prayer is communication with God.  Because our God is personal, anyone can speak or pray to Him, however the most meaningful and effective prayer comes from a believer with a faithful heart.  (Believer—one who believes God is our Creator and Sustainer who sent Jesus to pay the penalty we deserved.  Faith—placing your trust in the Jesus of history and the teachings of the Bible.)  Although there are many good things we can do in this world to help others, those good deeds cannot replace prayer—we need this time to speak with God and to continually focus our lives on Him.   (paraphrased from Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary, 1022)

Alright, let’s begin with praise.  Nelson’s New Illustrated Bible Dictionary defines praise as “an act of worship or acknowledgement by which the virtues or deeds of another are recognized and extolled.  Our praise toward God is the means by which we express our joy to the Lord.  We are to praise God both for who He is and for what He does.” NNIBD (1022-3)

Adoration—praising God for who He is.

Thanksgiving—praising God for what He does.

Read Psalm 150:2 and note which parts of this verse express adoration and which express thanksgiving.

“Praise of God may be in song or prayer, individually or collectively, spontaneous or prearranged, originating from the emotions or from the will…We speak well of one whom we highly esteem and love.”  NNIBD (1022-3)

Listen to Beth Moore’s call to praise from Whispers of Hope:  “Begin your morning prayer time with praise.  Psalm 22:3 tells us God inhabits the praises of His people.  Sincere praise from your heart will invite God to pull up His chair and become your audience.  You might repeat to Him a few of the attributes the Word records for Him.  Tell Him Who He is!  God already knows but He’s wanting to make sure we know.  Praising God helps remind us He is fully able to do anything we could ask or think according to His will.  Tell Him how great He is and why you thing so!  You might repeat to Him the words to a hymn or worship chorus.  Don’t try to fit into a mold.  Just praise Him with your heart.” 

Look up and read these verses:

Deuteronomy 32:3

Matthew 21:14-16

Luke 2:13-20

Hebrews 13:15

Who can praise God?  Absolutely everyone!

What can you praise God for today?  Please take some time right now to post a comment for something you praise (or adore) God for, then grab a notebook or sheet of paper and begin telling God just how great you think He is!

Praise You, Holy Creator, for the marvelous pictures You paint for us daily.  Your love is so unending.  You continue to seek our best even when we're at our worst.  Thank You for Your infinite mercy, thank You for desiring a relationship with ME, thank You for orchestrating this whole summer Bible study.  You alone could do such a thing--You are Good!!!

love,

me

So Begins Something New...

well, not entirely new, but a new season.  Of Bible study that is.  I have the privilege of studying with close to 20 women and ladies this summer--all of us digging into the book of Esther to see what God has to show us and what He has planned for us.  I'm sure there'll be many surprises!  Each time I've met with them so far, I look forward to the next meeting the moment they're gone!  God's Word does wonderful things in bringing people together.  People from different backgrounds, different occupations and different aspirations.  Jesus wants to unite us all!  To fight for love and hope and peace and all sorts of other good stuff.  And that's how I tell our boys we give the enemy a good punch in the face--by keeping on doing good, even when we're tempted to do bad.  Through Christ Jesus, our LORD, we are more than conquerors...and by the end of this journey we will all be dangerous women whom the enemy should fear.  He has no power over us.  May we continually relinquish our lives to our Mighty God who will do more in us than we can even imagine.  Glory!

P.S.  I won't promise that my noodly brain (Craig and I read a book that said men's brains are like waffles and women's are like spaghetti--each thought flowing to another!) won't jump from one subject to another on this screen, but I do promise to be honest :)